[Coffee weekend] Enjoying a cup of coffee is like getting to know someone

Must stir, must breathe, must be very slow. Do not just because hurriedly sipped his head felt bitter, but missed the sweet taste behind ...

There is a saying that I hate: "I want to use all my love to love once truly, rather than breaking it down into a bunch of love ..."

Because I thought it was like an unwarranted fallacy. What are the same things like love? We are not living in the film where, to meet for the first time realized that the other is the true love of his life? I think the love in this world is not super abstract, the most important is the sympathy from both sides. At the very least, when you have the feeling of “akin to love” with someone, it must be much more special than normal social friendships.

Let me tell you a story. I know a very special person. He has been the idol of many seniors like us since his high school days. He is handsome, top class, super dances, extra-curricular activities from the table. But we never saw him walk beside a rose at all.

After a while, I suddenly found his facebook. He was "horrible" than before, winning many great prizes and an open career future. But his facebook is just full of work, and gray loneliness seems to cover life. Having glanced at his personal page for a while, I realized that he was an extremely religious worship of "elimination" of the same things I said above! People like him do not lack the beautiful talented girls to pursue, he can also freely take intimate photos, go out to eat with them, but he is determined not to "move" in front of anyone (both female and female). male).

Sometimes I think about him, and imagine him as a beautiful crystal vase, people around him look at him with greedy admiring gaze, but no one dared to touch it, for fear of the awkwardness of I will shatter that flawless thing. In the end, why? He still walked alone, day waiting for someone "sophisticated enough" to come.

My friend a lot of people are in a deadlock, because they care too much about the more real things when they come together. I personally find it a waste of time, because it is not easy to find a special person that makes you consider it. Love alone has to be binding forever?

Love is about to accept a lot. Accept to sympathize, to change, not blindly. Like the way you treat feelings like that of love, maybe when you practice opening your heart to accept, you realize that it's the person you've been looking for for so long? Life is very harsh, but there are beautiful love life without the need for a thunderbolt or some heart-pounding feeling the first time we meet.

Get to know someone the same way you enjoy a cup of coffee, to stir it, to breathe, must be very slowly ...

Do not just because hurriedly sipped his head felt bitter, but missed the sweet taste behind ...